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What if you defined success as being, not becoming?


 
In the vast landscape of human experience, success is often defined by material achievements, societal recognition, and the pursuit of goals. This definition propels countless individuals into a relentless chase, believing that fulfillment lies somewhere beyond their current state. However, the timeless wisdom of the Vedas, Upanishads, Bhagavad Gita, Ashtavakra Gita, Avadhuta Gita, Kashmir Shaivism, Shiva Sutras, and other ancient scriptures offers a radically different perspective: success is not something to be achieved; it is an inherent state of being. This article delves into various definitions of success, distills insights from ancient teachings, and ultimately settles on a profound, effort-free definition of success rooted in the eternal bliss of the Self.
 
 
The Conventional Definitions of Success
From the earliest days of human civilization, success has often been tied to external accomplishments. Wealth, power, influence, and intellectual mastery are frequently viewed as hallmarks of a successful life. Modern thinkers like Steve Jobs emphasize passion, perseverance, and the ability to endure hardship:
 
“You’ve got to have an idea or a problem or a wrong that you want to right… Otherwise, you’re not going to have the perseverance to stick it through.”
 
This perspective highlights the value of determination and effort, presenting success as the result of a journey through challenges. Similarly, Paramahansa Yogananda equates success with sustained effort and alignment with divine will:
 
“Your success in life does not depend only upon natural ability; it also depends upon your determination to grasp the opportunity that is presented to you.”
 
While inspiring, such definitions imply that success lies in the future, creating a perpetual pursuit. This idea, though empowering, often leads to dissatisfaction, as the goalpost of success keeps shifting.

Key insight: By the time a person begins to think, a very tall and deep foundation of pre-digested, undigested, cooked, uncooked thought has already been built in his mind. So, when he or she beings to think, the thoughts arise from this foundation, this substratum. The key building blocks which are full of half-baked assumptions, unverified “facts” and untested “theories” are already there. These are never brought out and examined under the sun. These are never revisited. 99% of the people don’t even know these things exist in their minds. They truly, honestly believe their mind is generating pure and original thoughts independent of this layer foundation of old thought material. I encourage everyone to take an earth mover and dig up these mounds of thought earth and see what you find. So for most people the definition of success does not come from inside, it comes from outside mixed with all that other junky thoughts using which their mind was actually constructed! So, they may be able to define success but they may not be able to tell you why they want that so bad!
 


 
 
Effort and Fate: The Teachings of Sage Vasishta
Sage Vasishta’s teachings offer a nuanced view of effort and fate. He describes fate as the cumulative result of past actions but asserts that present effort has the power to transform it:
 
“Present acts destroy those of the past life, and those of the past life can destroy the effect of present acts, but the exertions of a man are undoubtedly successful.”
 
He compares the struggle between fate and effort to two rams locked in battle, where the stronger one prevails. This philosophy encourages human agency and acknowledges the transformative potential of courage and diligence. Yet, it also cautions against despair when external circumstances seem insurmountable:
 
“As a hail shower lays waste the cultivation of a whole year, so also does predominant fate sometimes overpower the attempts of this life. However, it does not behoove us to be sorry at the loss of our long-earned treasure, for what does it serve to have sorrow for something that is beyond our control?”
 
These teachings emphasize balance: effort is essential, but surrendering to the flow of life is equally important.
 
The Inner Alignment: Swabhava and Svadharma
In the Bhagavad Gita, success is framed as alignment with one’s Swabhava (inherent nature) and Svadharma (duty aligned with that nature). Krishna advises Arjuna:
 
“It is better to perform one’s own dharma, even imperfectly, than to perform another’s dharma perfectly.” (Bhagavad Gita 18.47)
 
This wisdom underscores authenticity. Success arises not from external validation but from living in harmony with one’s intrinsic qualities. For example, a teacher’s success lies in imparting knowledge, while a warrior’s success lies in upholding justice. Swami Vivekananda echoes this sentiment:
 
“Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life—think of it, dream of it, live on that idea.”
 
Such alignment leads to inner fulfilment, yet it still revolves around action and duty. Is there a higher state of success, free from even these subtle pursuits?


 

In the Bhagavad Gita (Chapter 18, Verse 14), Lord Krishna outlines five factors essential for the accomplishment of any action. These five factors emphasize the interplay between human effort, external circumstances, and divine grace:


The Five Factors of Success
1. Adhishthana (The Body):
The body serves as the physical foundation for performing actions. Without a functioning body, no action is possible, making it the first essential factor.
2. Karta (The Doer):
The individual who performs the action. The karta includes the soul’s identification with the body-mind-intellect complex, as influenced by the ego and willpower.
3. Karana (The Instruments):
These are the various senses, organs, and tools required to carry out the action. For example, hands for manual work, speech for communication, or external tools for achieving specific goals.
4. Cheshta (Effort):
The effort, energy, and intention put forth by the individual to accomplish the task. This includes physical, mental, and emotional exertion.
5. Daiva (Divine Providence):
The unseen forces, destiny, or grace of the Divine that influence the outcome of an action. While effort is crucial, divine will and external circumstances also play a significant role.

Even if you can control and manipulate the first four factors, the fifth factor is something you cannot control by definition!


 
The Bliss of Effortlessness: Insights from the Ashtavakra and Avadhuta Gitas
The Ashtavakra Gita takes us beyond action and duty, pointing to the ultimate realization that success is not a pursuit but an inherent state:
 
“You are the one witness of everything, and are always completely free. The cause of your bondage is that you see the witness as something other than this.” (Ashtavakra Gita 1.7)
 
This teaching shatters the illusion of becoming. It asserts that the Self is already complete, requiring no external achievements to validate its existence. The Avadhuta Gita expands on this:
 
“The Self is pure consciousness, beyond action, beyond desire, beyond effort. It is untouched by the fruits of actions and free from the illusions of gain and loss.”
 
Abhinavagupta, a luminary of Kashmir Shaivism, describes the experience of self-realization as a state of spontaneous bliss:
 
“The supreme reality is the universal consciousness. When the individual realizes their unity with this consciousness, they attain the state of effortless freedom, known as ‘Sahaja’ (natural state).”
 
The Shiva Sutras echo this sentiment:
 
“By meditation on one’s own true nature, the universe becomes an extension of the Self.” (Shiva Sutras 1.5)

In a sense, success lies in the effortless awareness of the Self, transcending the limitations of effort and duality. Because this success aligns with the cosmic purpose of your life!
 

The Pot of Water: A Metaphor for Inner Focus
Imagine a village woman walking 2 miles to fetch water in a mud pot. She balances the pot on her head and walks back home. Her full focus is on that pot, and she pays no attention to the distractions around her. Even if she stops to talk to someone, she does so while keeping her focus on the pot. The pot represents her highest state of being—a state of bliss, peace, and presence. It symbolizes the state of being fully connected to the divine, being in communion with the eternal now, and surrendering to the flow of life.
This metaphor teaches that true success lies in maintaining unwavering focus on your inner state of bliss, regardless of external stimuli. It’s about avoiding reactions to external distractions that might disturb your state of balance and peace, just as the woman avoids actions that might cause the pot to fall. At every possibility of a disturbance, ask yourself, “The pot of water or reacting to the taunts of the other village women, which one is more important?”


 
The Yoga Sutras of Patanjali highlight this focus:
 
“Yoga is the cessation of the fluctuations of the mind.” (Yoga Sutras 1.2)
 
When the mind is steady, success is not sought but revealed as the natural state of being.
 
Success as Surrender and Stillness
Bhagavan Ramana Maharshi and Sri Papaji emphasize the power of surrender. Maharshi describes the waking world as a dream, urging us to transcend its illusions:
 
“Just as the dream-world, being only a part of yourself and not different from you, ceases to interest you upon waking, so also the present world would cease to interest you if you awaken to your true Self.”
 
Sri Papaji reinforces this with radical simplicity:
 
“Don’t try to become anything, don’t go anywhere, don’t do anything, and don’t undo anything. Simply stay quiet. This is bliss, nothing else.”
 
The Shiva Samhita adds another layer to this understanding:
 
“The yogi who sees all beings in the Self and the Self in all beings, whose mind is steady and filled with inner light, is truly free.”
 
These teachings redirect the seeker from doing to being. Success, in this view, is not measured by accomplishments but by one’s ability to rest in the effortless awareness of the Self.
 

A Unified Definition of Success
True success transcends all definitions rooted in effort, fate, or achievement. It is the state of being fully present, undisturbed by the past or future, and anchored in the bliss of one’s true nature. This state is characterized by:
 
1. Effortless Being: Success is not something to strive for but to recognize within. Like the flute in Krishna’s hands or Shiva’s damaru, you are an instrument of divine harmony.
2. Inner Focus: Maintain unwavering awareness of your inner state, like the woman balancing the pot of water. Engage with the world without losing sight of your inherent bliss.
3. Surrender to the Divine: Let go of the illusion of control. Success lies in surrendering to the flow of life, trusting that you are already complete.

First come up with your Own definition of success without any input from anyone, living or Dead. no books, no videos, no movies, no speeches, no discourses, no coaching, no consultation; truly your own Definition of Success. One that does not give rise to a journey but keeps you rooted to where you are, in your highest state of effortless bliss. In other words, a definition of success that produces stillness rather than furtive movement. That helps you remain in an already experienced state of bliss and in fact helps you establish it or establish yourself in it more strongly. Something that does not take you anywhere – only makes you realise there is no where to go but right here, right now. Something that makes you realise that this shore is that shore and there is no ocean to cross. You are already in the ocean of joy. If your definition of success can show you how to remain in the ocean of bliss you have already discovered yourself to be, then its a keeper. No other person can show you how to be successful as only you know your own purpose. You should!


 Practical Steps to Embody Success
To integrate this profound understanding into daily life, consider these practices:
 
1. Self-Inquiry: Reflect on the question, “Who am I?” This will reveal the false identifications that keep you bound to the pursuit of external success.
2. Mindful Awareness: Treat your inner state like the pot of water. Stay centered, avoiding reactions that disturb your equilibrium.
3. Detach from Outcomes: Follow the Bhagavad Gita’s principle of Nishkama Karma (desireless action). Act with sincerity but without attachment to results.
4. Seek Wisdom: Immerse yourself in the scriptures, such as the Shiva Sutras, Upanishads, and Gitas. Their teachings illuminate the path to effortless success.
5. Surrender Daily: Begin and end each day with a moment of surrender. Acknowledge that your true nature is beyond effort and achievement.
 
Success, as defined by the highest teachings, is not a destination or an achievement. It is the realization that you are already complete, already blissful, and already free. The pot on the woman’s head is your inner state of peace. Walk through life with grace, undisturbed by external distractions or internal doubts. The world’s definitions of success will fade into irrelevance as you awaken to the truth that you are the success you have always sought.
 

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